If I am talking about the word difference, what will you think of? Do you like being different or just staying in the norm?

I believe some people are trying too hard to be different (outstanding) and some people are trying too hard to be the same as others (follow trend).

We are actually born to be different and we are actually destinated to have a different life every day. Why trying so hard to show the others that I am different or why trying so hard to follow the trend?